Anyone who has been charged with a romantic grooming crypto scheme is looking at some harsh realities in terms of both legal penalties and social judgments. These schemes frequently target elderly individuals who are viewed as more vulnerable by predators, who coarsely refer to their operations as pig butchering. While the scammers are often part of large international organizations, players may operate locally, as well.
How the Scams Work
Roughly $1 billion in annual losses occur due to these deceptive schemes every year, and they are becoming even more prominent as AI increasingly improves to make the scams seem even more real and convincing. They are very dangerous both financially and emotionally, since the transactions move extremely quickly, involve cryptocurrencies that many people do not understand well, and are irreversible. There are five basic steps to the process:
- Love-Bombing: The goal is to create a quick emotional connection. Victims become bombarded with affection and compliments through their social media, dating apps, or texts claiming to be from wrong numbers.
- Grooming: There is an attempt to build trust over the next weeks and months as the relationship grows. Now the scammer starts making false declarations about their romantic interest, and they boast about their career successes.
- An Investment Opportunity is Offered: The predator claims to have an inside track on an astonishing investment opportunity.
- The Pig Butchering: Fake trading platforms are presented, and the victim starts to invest, often making marginal gains at first, so they feel comfortable making further and larger investments.
- The Disappearing Act: When the victim attempts to withdraw substantial amounts, they start to hear for the first time about taxes and fees in an attempt to preclude withdrawals, until the scammer disappears completely.
It is Here in California
According to the U.S. Secret Service, there have been tragic losses to these scams recently. In fact, in San Diego alone, over 400 victims have lost a combined total of roughly $90 million.
Penalties for Offenders
These scams generally involve significant amounts of money, often leading victims to real financial hardship. That is one reason they are prosecuted as felonies in California and typically carry significant penalties:
- Federal charges;
- Up to 20 years in prison;
- Victim restitution and forfeiture of seized assets.
Defending Against Charges
An experienced criminal defense attorney has several strategies available in their defense of these kinds of charges, including:
- Demonstrating that you had no intent to defraud (you thought it was a good investment, after all);
- Scrutinizing forensics in order to demonstrate that theoretically suspicious transactions were actually legitimate;
- Proposing that since cryptocurrency regulations are ever evolving, they are difficult to interpret;
- Establishing that even though you were involved in a project that ultimately proved to be fraudulent, you, yourself, were duped and had no idea of the salaciousness of the crime.
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